Sleep Better in 2016

We’ve entered the new year, made our resolutions, and gotten back into a routine after the holidays.  How are your self-care routines going?  More specifically, how are you sleeping?

Here are a few things to consider that may help to improve your sleep in 2016.

-Are your bed and your bedroom comfortable?  Do you walk in and instantly associate the room with feelings of peacefulness?  If not, consider things like the temperature of the room and blankets, the lighting, the noise level, and what you use the room for.  Try to pick a couple of things to make changes and invest in your sleep space.  If you find that your bedroom is a multipurpose space (such as for watching television, doing work, or eating), consider moving these activities to another room or at least another piece of furniture other than the bed.

-Do you have a hard time turning off your “to do” list or worries at nighttime?  Try taking 5-10 minutes to think through, or even write down, your tasks and worries.  Do this before you even get ready for bed so that you have a buffer between your “worry time” and your sleep time.

-How do you prepare for bed?  I’m not just talking about brushing your teeth.  Think about what you do to wind down from the business of the day.  If you don’t have a pre-bedtime routine, try one out!  Take 20-30 minutes before bed to engage in something that is relaxing but won’t put you to sleep (you want to save that for when you get into bed).  This pre-bedtime routine could include stretching, reading, taking a bath, or another calming activity.

As always, don’t hesitate to call Johanna with questions or to schedule an appointment at (585)406-3012 if you’d like to explore this topic more.

On Gratitude

Gratitude is not just for Thanksgiving day.  While you may have finished the leftover turkey and the last slice of pie, your practice of gratitude does not need to be over.

If you need some assistance in increasing your awareness of gratitude, try answering a few of these 50 Questions to Foster Gratitude.  I went through them and surprised myself with some of the things I came up with!  If you’re feeling really ambitious, maybe even tell a few people what you’re grateful for, or thank them for something they’ve done for you.

I’m that person who likes to have everyone share what they’re grateful for at the Thanksgiving table.  Does this always happen?  No.  It can be hard to name and share with others your appreciation.  But gratitude does not always have to be big, perfect, or life-changing.  The other day I was grateful for a working hairdryer on a cold and rainy day.  Yesterday I found appreciation in a really great song on the radio that fit my mood.

So, what are you grateful for today?

Wellness Through the Holidays Workshop

Please note: Tomorrow’s Wellness Through the Holidays workshop has been cancelled.  If you are interested in attending a workshop, please sign up for December’s Wellness Through the Holidays workshop on December 10th (Thursday) from 5:30-7:00pm.  Cost is $20.  Sign up by emailing Johanna at jbondperspectives@gmail.com, or by calling (585)406-3012.

The holidays can be a stressful time.  Make sure you are taking care of yourself!

October’s Mindfulness Exercise

Mindfulness is something that everyone can incorporate into daily life.  Mindfulness involves observing and accepting the things around and within us, without judgment.  In therapy, Johanna may involve mindfulness skills to build awareness of various issues and to develop coping strategies.  If you are interested in group or individual therapy for mindfulness, please call the office.  The exercise below is not individualized to your needs as it may be in therapy, but is rather intended as a general exercise that you may find useful.

 

October’s mindfulness exercise:

Set a timer for three minutes.  Start by taking three deep breaths and notice each inhale and exhale.  Do a mental scan of your body from head to toe.  Starting at the crown of your head, try to bring your awareness from the top of your scalp all the way down through the fingers and to the toes.  Notice where you might carry tension or pain, and where you might feel more relaxed.  If you still have time left before the timer goes off, choose one area to bring your awareness back to.  When your timer goes off, take a deep breath and stretch before returning to your day.

NOTE: This is not intended to replace therapy.  Please contact Johanna at (585)406-3012 if you are interested in individual or group therapy.

Webster Herald

For those of you in Webster, check out this week’s edition of the Webster Herald!  You can find it at Wegmans or other local stores.  There’s a great article on Perspectives and the other businesses (Goshorn Acupuncture and Body Balance Massage Therapy) that have recently opened up at 721 Ridge Road.

Upcoming Groups!

In August, the Mindfulness Group will begin (starting on Thursday 8/13).  This group will run for 6 weeks on Thursday evenings and will involve increasing mindful awareness in daily life to improve various issues and stressors you may face.  Building mindfulness skills may help you to create healthy perspective in your life.  In September and October, groups for grief and for cognitive-behavioral therapy will begin.  See the “Groups” page under “About Perspectives” for more information, or call Johanna at (585)406-3012 to sign up!

Open House 6/25/15

Upcoming: Open House at Goshorn!

Where: 721 Ridge Road, Webster NY 14580

When: Thursday, 6/25/15, at 7pm

Goshorn Wellness is hosting an Open House to highlight the new services.  Come stop by Perspectives Mental Health Counseling to learn about services offered by Johanna Bond, LMHC, NCC.  Allison Goshorn of Goshorn Acupuncture, also newly opened, and Melissa Bice of Body Balance Massage, will also be available to discuss the services they offer in the same building.  Next door you will find Barb Goshorn, the Nurse Nutritionist, and chiropractors Dr. Charles Goshorn and Dr. Andrew Lazzaro.  We look forward to seeing you there!

 

Insomnia talk 6/4/15

When you don’t sleep well, it can impact everything about your next day.  Johanna Bond, LMHC, NCC, will present on insomnia and provide an overview of sleep hygiene suggestions for better sleep.  She will also discuss services she offers in her private practice using cognitive-behavioral therapy techniques to improve insomnia.

When: Thursday, 6/4/15 at 7pm

Where: 721 Ridge Road, Webster NY 14580

How to sign up: Call Goshorn Wellness at (585)671-0934 to pre-register.  There is no cost to attend this event.

Welcome to Perspectives Mental Health Counseling!

I invite you to bring your old strengths into a new perspective, and to share in a conversation that is both challenging and supportive.  At Perspectives, you really are welcome.  You may come to gain a viewpoint outside of your current network of friends, family, co-workers, teammates, and to take a look at your own perspective as well. 

By gaining new insight, you will find ways to make positive change in your life and cope with whatever it is you carry with you through the door.  Together we can, through talk therapy, work towards discovering and helping you to become the healthiest you.

Look around the website and please feel free to contact me with further questions.

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